During their 10-year marriage, Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin famously avoided being photographed together on the red carpet – and their last public appearance as a couple was no exception. Attending the Stand Up to Cancer benefit on Jan. 28 in Los Angeles, the pair arrived separately but joined up inside the intimate event, sitting together in the center of the room and betraying little sign of an imminent split. But behind the scenes, the Oscar-winning actress, 41, and the Coldplay frontman, 37 – who announced on Tuesday their decision to consciously uncouple – had been struggling for some time to keep their marriage afloat, several sources tell PEOPLE. The pair, who are parents to daughter Apple, 9 ½, and son Moses, 7 ½, "really tried to make the marriage work, but sometimes it's best to not be married," says a source close to Paltrow. "They know that about each other now." Rumors of trouble had long dogged the couple, and Paltrow acknowledged facing challenges in her marriage. "You're not learning anything unless you're having the difficult conversations," she told Self last year. "Dealing with things directly changed my relationships. Sometimes when you get clear about who you are, others get less comfortable because they liked who you were. It's changed my marriage, too, but he's up for the challenge." As for cheating rumors, the source close to Paltrow says she finds the chatter "ridiculous. And you know what? She doesn't care what people think. She really doesn't, she knows the truth." "They have worked really hard for a year or more, going to therapy, trying to make it work – and she's been more honest than ever about how hard marriage is – but they just decided it was best to not be together anymore as a couple," adds the source. Busy Schedules Distance and competing work schedules were always a challenge for the pair, who had long divided their time between their homes in London and Los Angeles. Martin has been working on his new album with Coldplay and recently signed on as a mentor for NBC's The Voice, while Paltrow wrapped her film Mortdecai in January and recently reprised her role as Holly Holliday on the 100th episode of Glee. After traveling to the U.K. for Christmas, they had spent much of the past several months in L.A. and appeared "very together" during awards season, says an industry source, turning up at the Golden Globes on Jan. 12 and at Sean Penn's Help Haiti Home party the night before.
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